Who doesn’t recall “The Tale of Peter Rabbit” by Beatrix Potter?

The fable tells of a mischievous little bunny who disobeyed his mother and wandered into Mr. McGregor’s garden. Besides filling him with fright, his excursion caused him to lose his dignity, his new coat and shoes. At one point he was drenched when he landed into a half-filled watering can.

When he finally reached home, the outcome of his expedition and unplanned dip resulted in sneezing and feeling very unwell. However, Mrs. Rabbit knew how to bring healing to her offspring. First of all, knowing that his ordeal was chastisement enough, she did not scold or punish him. Instead, she tucked him into bed and prepared some chamomile tea.

Each of us have or are presently experiencing sickness and disease. Blaming ourselves or others for our predicament inhibits our healing. Instead, a restorative remedy is required. It may range from the simplicity of chamomile tea, to the complexity of chemotherapy. Whatever the treatment, doctors agree that the best home therapy, one that has only positive side effects, are life-giving visitors.

Having an understanding heart, this guest does not exhaust the patient. In addition, he does not badger the person with too many questions, talk of their own illnesses or relate disheartening news. Similarly, he does not display moods of sadness and melancholy as this, too, could affect the welfare of the patient. Wisely, he brings gaiety. As one proverb states, “a merry heart is good medicine”.

Over the years my husband Frank and I have had our share of ailments. We find that the most life-giving visitors are those who cheer us with their cards and visits. Likewise, caring gifts have included a box of strawberries, prepared meals, helping with gardening and other necessary chores.

Therefore like Peter Rabbit, despite the hows and whys of our infirmities, life-giving visitors are essential. Their presence quickens our healing, bringing sunshine and smiles into the garden of our heart. 

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